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My boyfriend is constantly upset that I had a boyfriend before him?
We're 19 and I've had a serious boyfriend before him. He had a girlfriend for a few weeks but it was nothing serious. He knows I have had oral sex with my ex boyfriend, and he thinks about that every day and says it hurts him that I did that. I never had sex with my ex, only my current boyfriend. I don't know what I can do to make him feel better about this. It's not my fault I had sexual experiences with a guy before him.
I have tried explaining that he is much better than my ex but he says it doesn't matter and that it pops into his head every day.
4 Answers
- 4 years ago
There's nothing you can really say. I know that feeling. He just can't help how he feels. Really he is deeply angered and sad. He wants to cry but at the same time punch a wall or kill someone. You literally can't do anything about it because it's something he can't control. Everyone has something like that. Just ignore it and he'll forget eventually.
- Anonymous4 years ago
Break up with him.
Like, seriously read what you told us, and ask yourself why you've put up with that for more than a day.
I don't know why he'd even know you had oral sex with this guy before him, that's not something he needs to know.
- ?Lv 74 years ago
Let this be a lesson to you in the future.
It is NEVER a good idea to talk about past sexual histories. No good can ever come of it. All it does is create mistrust and bitterness in your current partner.
- Anonymous4 years ago
tell him to get over it. he shouldn't care what you did before you were dating him.
