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what do i do?

i ve dated a boy for a few months and he is very bad at communication and is not affectionate at all. yesterday we got in an argument while drunk and it got me thinking today so i asked him to talk and he was very nervous and said he just wanted me to be happy and make me happy. i decided to just have us take a break & i have realized that i do want to keep dating him. He doesn t really seem like he cares much in our relationship and i like how i am in control right now and have him working for me i guess. I wanna wait 5 days to talk to him or should i wait longer?? and should i act like i don t care to see if it effects him? i know he likes me but i need him to show it and i ve told him this multiple times but he sucks at talking. what should i do to make him work for me and get him not whipped but coming to me?

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    If you told him continuesouly the problem you wanted him to change but he didn't he doesn't care enough about you to try to make a difference. You should never make a man work for you if he doesn't care to begin with he doesn't care. It seems like you're putting more effort into the relationship than he is. Maybe you should break it off figure things out your future career, school, interests just do your own thing without him and someone who appreciates you will come along. Have standards in the way you want to be treated if a guy doesn't meet those requirements give him the boot

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