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My best friend is ignoring me?
We are two close guy friends sense first grade, and we both graduated together. We also both live in the same neighborhood close by. We hang out like everyday. He is ignoring my text now, and we see each other in public he acts so surprised to see me. Then when I bring up the texts, he makes up an exuse. I was getting lunch at this place called FireHouse Subs, and he came in with the guys. I feel pissed, left out, and I keep asking myself what did i do. I dont wanna lose a close friend sense childhood guys. What do you guys think? What Should I do?
2 Answers
- 4 years agoFavorite Answer
I would just do the same, ignore him. Move on and do things with other people. It sucks because you're so close and you don't want to lose that, but the truth is you will lose a lot of people you were once close to and it may not be that you've done anything wrong, but relationships are dynamic and constantly changing. Only a few will stay permanently.
I wouldn't explain to him that I feel hurt, or even tell him that I'm moving on.. I would just move on. Don't text him anymore. Don't bother trying to be a part of his life when he doesn't see any value in being a part of yours. You only get one life and if someone treats you like this no amount of begging or asking for an explanation is going to change their mind, it will just drive them away.
It's up to you, its your life. But as I said, I would just make a point of not contacting him again. if you see him smile and wave, be friendly, but he's clearly not someone you should put any effort into or even call a friend anymore.
Hes not the last friend you will lose, its just life. Be thankful for the memories and move on.
- 4 years ago
I’m sorry about this situation with your friend. I would suggest that you give your friend the space he seem to want and you spend time with your other friends. I’m sure he’ll come around after some time. Take care!
