I'm 21 yrs old about to be 22 in 2 months and I'm scared to have sex with my boyfriend because I think it will hurt. How can I not be scared?

Why are you scared it will hurt? If you've had bad experiences in the past, and know that you find sex painful, then you should go and see a doctor, because they can help. If it's an unfounded fear, then you need to see if getting more informed can help you - looking online or talking to people about their experiences, understanding that for most people sex is not painful, and there are ways to ensure it is not painful, for example by ensuring both of you are ready beforehand through foreplay, being relaxed, investing in lubrication etc.

I answered your previous question . The best way for not being scared of sex is receiving oral for about some weeks from your bf . I think your bf knows that you are scared of sex that is why he proposed to have oral sex with you through licking your vagina .

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I suggest he gives you oral first to get you wet....at that point you'll be so aroused and relaxed that when he goes into you it'll be more pleasurable.

Shag a 7 year old. That wont hurt

Relax and just go with the flow as long as it feels right.

Best thing you can do.

If it hurts so much the whole world will not do it !