Why isn t the girl I m dating messaging me back? What s going on with her? Please help (read details) part 5?

...I ran into a guy two weeks ago who was in the same situation we are with his wife. He told me about this book called the 5 Love Languages. He said it helped him and his wife be romantic and stuff. He also recommended a church that helped them too.

You know I'm here and I want to be supportive. I can send you the info if you want. It looks helpful.

And, one more thing. I know we're dating and I remember you saying your mom would freak (she would freak because they're Jehovah's Witnesses and I'm not, and it's frowned upon to date outside the religion) if she knew we're together. Well if you think about it, we're still dating so we may as well make it official, am I right? :j

Boyfriend and girlfriend. What do you say? I really do love you (girl's name). There isn't a day that I don't think about you.

Anyway, that's it. What do you think?"

She said she already read some of the book and her mom sent her some info about abuse, and she explained some of her struggles with the abuse affects and stuff. I replied saying that I met those two guys with partners who were abused and said they're doing better so I'm sure there's something to help her get better too.

She didn't answer the boyfriend girlfriend question

And she said she can't trust anyone mentally, not even me. I don't know what she meant about "trusting anyone mentally?"

Anyway that's what's going on. I don't know what to do, I'm torn, I'm miserable. What do you all think? What should I do?