my new boyfriend of 3 months said he wants to lick my vagina over the summer. he knows that I'm a virgin. I'm 21 & he's 22. Why he wants to?

Just let him try. If you are not yet ready for sex, you can feel the whole joy of foreplay.

With oral and hand jobs, you remain always a virgin, but this is a good occasion to see what may come next. Obviously he is familiar how to wake up your desire. If he is experienced enough and does it well, you do not have to worry at all.

Enjoy what he is doing and follow your feeling. Maybe you want to give him something back - just let it happen. But be prepared: If he is really skilled and you really love him, you will have your first sex sooner than you can imagine now. Once you have tasted the sexual experience you definitely want more.

So think already about how you want to loose your virginity. Don't rush - it will develop automatically. But if the time comes, it could be much faster and much more intense than you could ever imaging.

This will be the day you will remember through all your life - and your will get the stars from heaven.

Have fun! It's worth.

IMO, your bf has sufficient experience to get woman to become "addicted" to sexual intercourse.

Oral sex is not actually "sex" because after that, you remains a virgin. However, oral sex is a very intimate form of foreplay that could give a woman multiple orgasms.

Simply putting, if you allow him to give you oral, which IMO he should be sufficiently skillful with, you will become so desiring of sexual intercourse (penis-in-vagina sex) that you'll lose your virginity in the next few sessions to come.

So to conclude, this bf of yours knows how to make love to his woman. If you want to keep you virginity, IMO, you should hold back even oral to him. Otherwise, I am quite sure you'll not be a virgin very soon.

PS: Consider carefully your choice. You're already of marriageable age. If you're financially and emotionally ready for marriage, and you love this guy, see if he loves you too. If he does, then perhaps seek out an engagement could be the best way for you now. You decide. I just write my thoughts out loud.

"Can I get an infection down there if he licks me"

You can get an infection down there even if he doesn't lick you.

Are you sure you're 21? Are you mentally challenged?

Breaking virginity would require intercourse and oral sex doesnt really count as losing your virginity. Most likely he wants to have some kind of sexual contact but you are still hung up about actually letting him. At some point hes going to get sick of waiting and frankly, I wouldnt be surprised.

Oral and hand stimulation is not sex so you can't lose your virginity. To be honest I think oral and hand play is better than actual sex. Life is short and just let him. If he knows what he is doing it will be the best decision of your life. Your young and healthy. Have fun.