Is it bv? Or?

I know I have to go to the doc anyway, but what about my bf?

Me and my bf have unprotected sex. We just can't do condoms.

Anyway, the past couple months I've been struggling with on and off BV. The third time I thought I had it, there was a cottage cheese like substance but no odor what so ever. But i was bleeding. Not because of my period, it was caused by the infection. When I got a pap, I came back clear ex the bv. There was no yeast found.

Now, I've noticed a few new things. Not on me but on my bf. The tip of his penis has a red/dry sometimes raw rash. It stings me every time he gets it. And his *** is thick and mucus-y. And just yesterday I noticed that same rash, not on but close to my who-ha.

What is going on? Anyone else going through this?

I have health insurance but he doesn't