My boyfriend never has time for me?

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My boyfriend works Monday-Sunday he's 17 I'm 18. He works at his uncles I understand he has to make his money and I don't want to take that away from him but we never have time for each other. I work Saturday and Sunday's and we do see each other sometimes because we're both too tired all we do is go out to eat and go home sometimes we hangout Fridays but it's rare. I feel selfish but I honestly feel like he doesn't make time we literally don't hang out, to go out to the movies or go somewhere it's rare maybe like once a month. I've talked to him about it and he told me his mom told him the same thing a while ago but he doesn't understand. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

? · Answer

I will be honest with you on this one. I really don't think he's going to be your type. If both of you can't find time to sit down together, or do anything together, then maybe it's time for you to find another man. Cause you can't possibly continue with this confusion over and over again.

bette · Answer

Yes and no.  You hoth have life needs that come first.   However he sounds like he has grown a little two comfortable and does not have to put in an effort.

So u may have to give an ultimatin.  Or look elsewhere.  Follow it.  Break up if that is what it takes to get his attention.

♠ Merlin ♠ · Answer

He works 7 days a week?
strong work ethic for someone so young
he does need time off, for himself, to relax and spend time with you though
all work and no play, and all that
you arent wrong, but, you have talked and he obviously prioritises work over his relationship

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