I'm married to a man, but I have fantasies about being with another woman?

People have fantasies all the time. That's normal. If you're with a partner who is receptive to this sort of thing, it's also normal to share these fantasies with them.

BUT...we actually rarely act on them. Doing so in secret is dangerous, and you have to make this choice: Is fulfilling this fantasy MORE important to you than your relationship with your husband? Most people would say "no" and consequently just enjoy the fantasy as a fantasy. If you are the sort of person to say "yes" then you have to do so fully cognizant of the risks you're running. For some people that too, is part of the excitement; the danger of risking everything. It's not necessarily a healthy attitude to have.

The third option is to explore the opportunities with your husband, or at least with his permission. Who knows what some guys will go for, even within the bounds of matrimony? If pornography is part of your sex life, you can edge up to the question by bringing it up in sex conversation while watching the sort of thing that turns you on: "Have you ever thought of having sex with another guy? Would you be turned on by the idea of me having sex with another woman?" etc., etc. I'm sure you can see where you'd want to steer this conversation.

But even then, beware. People often give their consent to the most salacious of ideas in the heat of horniness, but experience doubt and remorse and pain and anger when they find two different bra sizes in the bed after returning from an over-night business trip.

Not all women discover they are lesbian or bisexual, until later in life, it's just your time to do so.

No you're not bisexual, but just a hørny woman. Bisexual doesn't mean threesomes or whatever. As a bisexual woman, i wouldn't date a woman like you...why....you're married, second...am attracted to women and men, but not for experimental or 3somes. When i like a woman, then i do...when i like a man then i do. I don't date two people at ago or have sex with a woman when am in a relationship with a man or voice verse.

Anyway, perhaps you should talk to your husband and arrange a swing with other couples who are open minded, then there you could get to have fun with the woman.

It's normal. According to a poll on Pornhub, lesbian porn is mostly viewed by women. I guarantee that some of them were straight. I'm straight too but sometimes I get curious to know what it would be like with another woman. I'm sure there are even some straight guys who get curious and fantasize themselves with men. My brother did.

If you're married, it doesn't matter whether you're gay, straight or bisexual - you don't cheat on your husband. Ever.

Okay - so you get turned on by some weird porn, but you have to keep it in your own head and not act on it.

If you have any sexual contact with another woman, it's NOT experimenting - it's cheating and betraying your husband, just as much as if you went with another man.

If you love your husband and don't want to destroy your marriage, you'll never, ever have sex with anyone else.

And believe me - it WOULD destroy it.

Imagine it, if you must, but it would be far better to stop watching porn altogether. It's very unhealthy.