Where can I meet older men What are men seeking when looking for a spouse What do guys really want?

I am 23. I never know why the question is "what do women want" I really give my all I aim to look the part and be the ideal woman. It's beyond infuriating when men tell me I am wife material or smart or great but I am still unwed it's sickening. I look alright. I've been told I am really attractive but whatever. None of those words matter when my slutty and in my opinion not that smart peers end up married with children. These women lack substance they just show off their bodies and get pregnant. A lot of times they end up just hooking up with guys. Meanwhile 😐 me lonely gonna be some cat lady. I am not looking for sponsership I want a real thing to blossom. Guys my age are just ridiculous and sadly some older guys want to act like them (I guess the freedom and opportunity) but I would like a guy maybe 10 or 15 years older who is ready to settle down what should I be doing to attract these men. And also it drives me insane seeing these spoiled brat women who use thier men. I have never donw that I usually end up giving more than I ever get in every area and still turn up short. Please any advice. (I have taken time to work on myself but in the mean time I need to figure what I am doing wrong) Thank you And no I don't want to start being trashy idek why that is who gets the gold people literally have told me they cheat on their boyfriends like it doesn't matter like ugh it sucks. I also am not like a judgey prude I just don't agree with some of my friends antics.