Have you been too nice to someone only to get f***** over? I think I'm going to stop being the nice guy because it just doesn't pay off.?

Yes I'm always nice to people and yes I've gotten screwed over so many times. But I don't let it stop me from being nice, I'm just cautious now. Besides I have a lot of people who like me, I'm known for being nice and pretty much everyone has a good opinion on me. (I'm super shy and don't get into drama either lol)

I understand what you mean but think of it this way, what if those people who are rude also were once nice? And they've gotten screwed over by others so many times it drove them to become the rude one? Don't end up that way!

Being nice is a wonderful quality unfortunately not many people have nowadays, keep being nice but be smart about it. Be nice to the people who you know are good, but be cautious around others who you know aren't so good. Don't be rude but don't go out of your way to be nice, just tolerate them and be polite.

Yes

Well, nothing's guaranteed to work every time. If this is a pattern for you, definitely look into why you keep getting into these same situations with girls. But if it's just one girl, it may very well be bad luck. Just try to learn as much as you can from the experience. Remember, we have LIMITED control over people. Maybe if you were different she would have been different. But maybe not. Maybe you just have to learn to recognize the signs of this type of girl or this type of situation and get out early, before you heart gets too involved.

Definitely too nice to one person, but when she showed her true colours, I saw my error and now have no time for this person. I still like to think I am a "nice guy (but feminine) and take my friendships seriously.

I am always the nice girl. Some use you and some not, but I am never going to quit being nice no matter what. Life is too short to be miserable.

If you are being nice to someone because you expect a "payoff" then it is a pretence not a genuine part of your character. A person of character does not change how they act towards others based on how others react to kindness or generosity, but it is something that comes from within. If you are asking have I ever been treated poorly by those that I have been kind to the answer is absolutely, many of them family members, but that has only changed the type of interaction I am willing to have with them, not how I treat others.

Do you suppose being an ****** pays off? On the contrary......

Everything doesn't always worked out as planned or expected in the game of life. However, it does pay off, over time, being a good person.... being a nice guy. Others will see that you're about quality, integrity, honesty and that you're not a selfish and self-centered.

You can be a good person or nice guy without being taken advantage of or being scammed.... you just have to be on the look-out at all times.

All the time but i can't change who i am and so i become more and more closed as much as i would like i don't let anyone get close to me

You said f u c ked