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Im straight but having gay thoughts?
So basically my entire life I have always been straight, Im currently 17 years old and have had 4 girlfriends in my life, Im seeing a girl right now well we aren't technically dating but we do have sex occasionally, but lately I have found that when I'm watching porn i find myself really attracted to a mans penis, but not the man himself, i can't judge a guy based on his looks, i don't even think i would ever considering dating a guy as I can't ever imagine myself being emotionally attracted to a male, but what i do find is that Im physically attracted to a guy.
Very occasionally i will watch gay porn, and I find myself really turned on by the straight to gay stuff, it gets me rock hard, but I just can't find guys attractive like i do with girls, I want to experiment with a guy and try sucking a penis and would consider letting a guy have sex with me, but I can't even imagine myself kissing a guy or being emotionally invested in guy like i can with a women.
Im not really looking for a answer, but more for your thoughts, do you think i am gay and in denial? I want to try and experiment with a guy and see what its like to have sex with one and see if I'm missing out on anything, but i know for a fact that i will never date one, anyway please don't judge me If you don't have anything helpful to add don't bother because I'm really just looking for some advice here.
5 Answers
- Anonymous4 years ago
Sound like a normal straight guy who like most guys wants to experiment. About 70% of all guys do experiment at one point (or several). Many times best friends will start to talk about sex and end up fooling around, whether it is masturbating each other or even going further into oral and anal sex. Sex is a normal, natural urge, and society has deemed sex with another guy as "bad" or wrong but fact is most guys at some point certainly have the curiosity and urge to try it. So just accept you are quite normal, and nothing wrong with experimenting with someone. Only live once, so why not try new things anyway.
- HermesLv 74 years ago
You are in fact either gay or bi and in denial - almost certainly. All the things you "know for a fact" about your reactions are socially trained, but your body is trying to tell you different. That is reality. I would only ask that if you choose to continue to try to tamp it down and live as the person you believe you must be - that you not then take it out on those who are happy as gay and bisexual men via your votes. A lot of guys in denial do that and it really isn't fair. Be the person you are or the person you want to be - but don't punish others for being happy.
- Anonymous4 years ago
A lot of people have gay thoughts at times. But this does not make them or you gay.
- 4 years ago
You're missing out on a lot of good d!ck out there.
You should experiment with at least 5 guys, since some guys are sexually better than others.
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- geessewereaboveLv 74 years ago
As the Bible states No one can become Homosexual other then by their Own decision to be come so!
Are you aware that the reason the homosexuals took up the slang "gay" in 1980 is because they have the Largest Suicide rate out of every race, creed, sex, ... club, org., .. country over the Whole Planet Earth?! Do you want to become to Depressed? In so many Pains?!
