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y is that my new boyfriend of 5 mnths hangs up the phone on me when I'm telling him how I feel?He will say ok i understand&I will keep going?

we have been together for 5 months and for the first 3 months he never would hang up the phone. i told him to stop doing that because it's rude. But before he gets off the phone he says ok now i'm hanging up and i always say no i want to talk to u about how i'm feeling like how he always want to hang out with his friendsw and he doesn't see me much anymore like how he use to in the first 3 months of the relationship he will say ok i got u but that's it i want him to say more then that. then i keep going on and on. he will hang up. he say at least im being nice about it which is him telling me first that he is going to hang up insteade of just hanging up without telling me. then i keep calling his phone and he won't answer. can anyone give me advice on what i should do & is this a sign of anything?

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    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    LMFAO You have a serious problem and cant see it.

    He wont answer because you are going full retard on him driving him insane.

    As a guy i can tell you exactly what is going on:

    He is thinking WTF is she on about? She told me already now she needs to GTFO.

    And he wont answer you then because it will be on and on and on with more WTF.

    Dont worry it will sort itself out, he will only put up with it till he has enough and decides your too mentally unstable to date and he dumps you.

    Thats how men see it.

  • 4 years ago

    I think he's hanging up on you because you keep going on and on. He heard you, he got it, he doesn't want you to tell him again, over and over. Girls and guys communicate differently. Guys tend to be more direct, to the point, and once it's said, it's over. Girls have go make sure they are heard and he feels what she is feeling, blah blah blah. That's what he heard, blah blah blah. You calling him back after he hangs up on you isn't helping either. Sorry but it's the truth. That's why he isn't answering. Give him a break. You should apologize to him, explain that you need him to understand so if he would just let you know he does understand, you'll be ok and it'll be done. And then don't nag him. Good luck.

    Btw I'm a girl. and I know for a fact that guys communicate differently from girls.

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