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my boyfriend puts his friends before me and it gets me mad. why does he do that?
when me and my new boyfriend of 5 months started going out he would dedicate all his time to me. he would be around me all the time and go out his way to make sure he see me every week. Now he gets off work earlier then me and i get off work later then him by the time i get home it's late. so while he is out of work sometimes he goes straight to his friend house. & when i get home im tired except after work on friday night and saturday i don't work. so those are the two days i want to be with him but with one of those days he tell me that he will see which day we can chill because he might have plans with his friends. I said that those are the days he should spend with me since i'm working the entire week. hi want him to spend all his time with me and no time for his friends. he said im trying to lock him down and te only way he would stop haqnging out with his friends if i get pregnant by him like have his baby or if we would get married.
5 Answers
- Anonymous4 years ago
So why do you put up with it?
Grow a backbone.
Get some self-respect.
Dump his sorry ***.
Spend some time being single.
Decide what *you* want out of life and how *you* will get it.
Move on.
Not necessarily in that order.
- ?Lv 74 years ago
You have the problem NOT your boyfriend.
Your over entitled princess expectations will destroy your relationship, and your emotions don't count for crap in the situation you place YOURSELF.
I would be fairly concerned if my GF was home alone doing nothing, unless that's what she wanted of course.
No one else sets up a dating calendar and demands it be stuck to, hell that would seem like a job and kill any romance become repetitive and incredibly boring.
Deal with your insecurities before the guy dumps you, and insecure women ALWAYS get dumped. You might not want to hear it, but thats coming at your relationship like a freight train.
- 4 years ago
Both of you are acting like children. He should make time to hang out with you but at the same time why can't you hang out with his friends? I'm tired from work and antisocial but I've learned to adjust and be around my boyfriend who is more outgoing and energized. If being in a relationship means "locked down", then he shouldn't be in one. He seems immature and you seem inflexible.
- flutterbyLv 74 years ago
Imo, if you keep demanding that he spend Friday night and Saturday with you and spend all of his time with just you, you will push him into a corner and he will step back and it'll affect your relationship. Meaning you may not reach your 1 year anniversary. Do not trick him into getting you pregnant just so you can have all of his time either, he will totally resent that. Talk to him and explain that you only have Fri nite and Saturday to spend with him, and you miss him so much because you work the other days so you would appreciate if he spent time with you. You might get all his time, but probably not. A guy still needs guy friends. Hopefully you both can agree on something.
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- Anonymous4 years ago
You are being too damn controlling. Just because you're his girlfriend doesn't mean he is required or obligated to spend all his free time with you. Grow up and chill out. If he wants to hang with his friends he can. He does not need your permission or approval.
