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Am I supposed to stop seeing him?

I'm 20 years old and my dad found out I'm dating a 31 year old and now he's disappointed in me and says that I'm being used and that I need to find someone my age

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  • 4 years ago

    You're grown

    But in your dad's eyes you are his baby girl,

    Every parent wants what's best for their children especially our daughters

    He just want you to live a little,enjoy life with someone you may have a little more in common with.

    We all want our children to listen to us ,we try to keep you from experiencing hurt so we come off like we are telling you what to do

    But sometimes our children have to learn the hard way..if you have children it is then you start to understand why we try to save you from the heartache,he loves you and don't want to see or feel your pain..good luck

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    You think guy at their 30s look for women at 30s? Of course not, even if they do, its very rare. 30s guys always date women at their 20s. If you won't be a part of his life then someone other 20s women will be. There is no harm if you leave him, he will understand. But in relationship it's always better that one partner is matured and experience in life, women or men doesn't matter.

    It's your decision anyway, if you really into this guy, you would not be asking question here. You have doubt, better mature yourself first and understand this things later. Going out in doubt will not end well for you or for him. Leave him.

    "Chivalry is dead and women killed it" ~ Dave Chappelle

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