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My bf keeps calling his ex “sweetie and honey “?
My BF left a woman he was trying to be in a relationship with for me. He tells me how he complained to her about standing up to her family, stop letting them control her, how her family didn’t like him to begin with because he was older. his pet peeve was her not driving over/spending the night all because of her parents he said we were having sex and she still couldn’t stay over. he said he felt like she treated him like a friend and he wanted to feel like a boyfriend. A few months ago he told her “i met someone else and I’m trying to be with her” and she cried she started getting upset and fussing at him for meeting another girl. And she begged for him back but he told me he apologized and said “sorry sweetie l still be here for you”. I went through his phone. The day after he broke up with her though he texted her first saying “hey sweetie how are you doing” he initiated the conversation the next day after that too saying “hey sweetie how’s your day going so far” the week after he broke up with her she was still trying to see him and he was trying to clear his schedule to see her too from the text. weeks went by and neither one of them texted each other until last Month he texted her first asking how she was doing she didn’t reply. He checks in on her and calls her sweetie so, but why leave her only to continue to be sweet with her. He might have ended their relationship but he didn’t end contact and he jumped from her straight to me without any break
3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years agoI overheard my bf talking about me to his friend he said i looked old ?
My boyfriend was in the phone last night and i guess he assumed i was asleep but he had his male friend on speaker phone and he mentioned he had a gf now (me) so his friend asks how did we meet and etc and that’s when my bf randomly says “she’s 24 but she looks older i thought she was my age I’m not sure if that’s a good or bad thing “
3 AnswersSingles & Dating2 years agoWhy does my bf ping pong between his ex and i?
My boyfriend left a girl he was dating to be with me. He told me how he complained to her about standing up to her family,stop letting them control her,and she never did it and how her family didn’t even like him to begin with. He said his pet peeve was her not driving long over/not spending the night all because of her parents.So the last day of February he left her and ten days later we were in a relationship. He bluntly told her he met someone else and was leaving her. Today i went through his phone.The day after he broke up with her though he texted her first saying “hey sweetie how are you doing” he initiated the conversation the next day after that too saying “hey sweetie how’s your day going so far” the week after he broke up with her she was still trying to see him and he was trying to clear his schedule to see her too from the text. Two weeks went by and neither one of them texted each other until last Saturday he texted her first asking how she was doing she didn’t reply. Then today i see text from her saying she missed him and said she hoped he was doing good and he said i miss you too sweetie i hope you’re doing alright sweetie. I see text from both of them bringing up old memories and bringing up their inside jokes as well ... but he left her to be with me
3 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years agoBfs fwb ex invited him to her gathering?
My boyfriend and I have been together since March of this year. Before i met him he told me he was casually dating this woman but it wasn’t really going anywhere. So he basically told me he felt like they were better friends/she was treating him like a friend so it turned into a FWB. So then i met him we dated a month and then became a couple.
My boyfriend told me she verbally invited him to her housewarming and he was going. I told him i don’t think it’s appropriate for him to go but he said “well I’m not staying , but I’m going to go”
TL:DR; i am slightly upset because , i don’t think he should go for the simple fact that they were together whether official or not and he insists on going. I feel like I’m overreacting but , she’s considered an ex in my book and i don’t know how close they are for her to invite him
1 AnswerSingles & Dating3 years agoBoyfriend semi flirting with ex?
I saw texts from my boyfriend telling his ex he saw her at the store and telling her she needed a longer shirt because of her butt and he told asked her what happened to her glasses and asked her was she trying to show off her pretty face.. this is the boyfriend who left his ex to be with me a month ago
1 AnswerSingles & Dating3 years agoWhy does he care if we’re social media friends we aren’t together ?
My boyfriend and i broke up so i removed him from all of my social media. So today he texted me asking me why i deleted him from my Facebook and told me that i hurt his feelings when i did that, why does he care about being friends online.
5 AnswersSingles & Dating3 years agoAm I spoiling him too much ?
I buy him breakfast or lunch at least once a week and sometimes I'll buy him snacks for work or buys him things he needs for work like food... now I'm thinking about buying him NBA2k18
3 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoAm I overthinking or is he being insecure ?
Today is my birthday and My boyfriend had to work on my birthday so we decided to celebrate this weekend instead of today. So I decided instead of spending the day alone I'd invite my best friend over for a couple of drinks to help celebrate my day. I texted my bestfriend this morning and asked her to come over around 5 so we could cook dinner and have a few drinks etc. At around 4:30 it began raining really hard and lightening and thundering so I decided to text my best friend and tell her "don't worry about coming because of the weather "
but instead of texting that to my bestfriend I accidentally sent that text to my boyfriend . And after I realized I sent that to him not my bestfriend I texted him back a minute later and said "I'm sorry hun that text was meant for someone else" so while he was on break he texted me "so who was that text meant for" then seconds later he sent another text that said "I thought you weren't going anywhere today" then two minutes later he sent "I guess you are ignoring me now"
I finally read all the text messages he sent and responded "I'm not going anywhere ... I was going to get my friend and bring her over but the rain isn't letting up and no I'm not ignoring you .. what's wrong ?"
He replied " Nothing i was just asking thats all sorry"
Tl;DR: I feel as though he's being insecure but then again I don't know if maybe I'm overthinking.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoIs my friend playfully flirting ?
I texted my close male friend this morning and My guy friend texted me back "Goodmorning and asked how did I sleep" and I said "I slept very good and asked how did you sleep" and he said "I slept alright but I would've slept better with you beside me "
4 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWhat should I do?
I just turned 21 and I met a 30 year old at work in march and we've been going out ever since March 17th and now that we've put a label on our relationship I told my parents about him and the only problem is he's ten years older than I am and my dad doesn't want me hanging out with him. My dad actually wants to talk to him my mom has already talked to him but now my dad wants to...
My dad thinks I'm naive and that I'm doing all the intiating and that the guy I'm seeing doesn't really like me , My dad doesn't want him around the house and my dad doesn't want him in the house. My dad thinks because of his age that he's trying to use me so now the guy that I'm dating doesn't want to come over anymore or some see me anymore because he feels like
"he's not welcomed over my house" what do I do? I miss him so much and this is the first week that he hasn't came over to see me or anything and I'm having a hard time dealing with this
Tl:DR; the only reason why I told him how my dad felt is because my DAD threatened that if I didn't tell him that he was going to and now I feel like I'm not going to be able to get him back
4 AnswersFamily4 years agoDoes he not want to be with me anymore?
My boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky phase but we still managed to get through it and yesterday while on break at work he texted me and asked me "what day did I want to go out to eat?" I texted back
"it's up to you.doesnt matter" he texted back "why you say it like that" and I said " Like what? lol I'm trying to work with your schedule I'm free all week practically .. whatever day is good for you" and then he said "well any other time I would ask you'd tell me when you wanted to go out to eat with me" then I replied back "is Friday alright with you hun?" And he said "yeah that's cool with me ,do you feel different about me "
why is he being so sensitive , my feelings didn't change overnight
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWhat should I do?
My girlfriend doesn't show me any affection like when I want to cuddle and kiss her she acts like I'm bothering her she wants affection when she's ready not when I'm ready ..and when I call her she acts like I'm bothering her. We have only been together a year and we live with each other. When we cuddle apart if me wants to make it work and wants the cuddle but the other side of me feels like I'm forcing the cuddle. Even though we live together I pay most of the bills and she only pays her half of the rent I pay every other bill and she makes more money than I do. I feel lonely on my relationship. On my birthday she only gave me a card.
1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years agoWhy is he being so insecure in this little conversation?
My boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky phase but we still managed to get through it and yesterday while on break at work he texted me and asked me "what day did I want to go out to eat?" I texted back
"it's up to you.doesnt matter" he texted back "why you say it like that" and I said " Like what? lol I'm trying to work with your schedule I'm free all week practically .. whatever day is good for you" and then he said "well any other time I would ask you'd tell me when you wanted to go out to eat with me" then I replied back "is Friday alright with you hun?" And he said "yeah that's cool with me ,do you feel different about me "
Tl:Dr; why is he being so sensitive , my feelings didn't change overnight
1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years agoWhy would he ask if I feel different about him?
Me and my boyfriend have been going through a rocky phase but we still managed to get through it and yesterday while on break at work he texted me and asked me "what day did I want to go out to eat?" I texted back
"it's up to you.doesnt matter" he texted back "why you say it like that" and I said " Like what? lol I'm trying to work with your schedule I'm free all week practically .. whatever day is good for you" and then he said "well any other time I would ask you'd tell me when you wanted to go out to eat with me" then I replied back "is Friday alright with you hun?" And he said "yeah that's cool with me ,do you feel different about me "
Tl:Dr; why is he being so sensitive , my feelings didn't change overnight
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWhy is he worried about me admitting my feelings ?
I told my best guy friend that there is this guy at my job is trying to get with me but I'm not interested and he keeps telling and asking me "when are you going to tell him how you truly feel or he asks a are you going to tell him how you truly feel and that you don't like him that way " then he'll say things like "you need to tell him how you feel that you're not interested "
Then yesterday he asked me "has he said anything to you lately or asked you out "
1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years agoI want to keep seeing him but my dad doesn't like the idea ?
I just turned 21 and I met a 30 year old at work in march and we've been going out ever since March 17th and now that we've put a label on our relationship I told my parents about him and the only problem is he's ten years older than I am and my dad doesn't want me hanging out with him. My dad actually wants to talk to him
My dad thinks I'm naive and that I'm doing all the intiating and that the guy I'm seeing doesn't really like me , My dad doesn't want him around the house and my dad doesn't want him in the house. My dad thinks because of his age that he's trying to use me so now the guy that I'm dating doesn't want to come over anymore or some see me anymore because he feels like
"he's not welcomed over my house" what do I do? I miss him so much and this is the first week that he hasn't came over to see me or anything and I'm having a hard time dealing with this
Tl:DR; the only reason why I told him how my dad felt is because my DAD threatened that if I didn't tell him that he was going to and now I feel like I'm not going to be able to get him back
3 AnswersFamily4 years agoShould I stop seeing him ?
I'm 20 years old and my dad found out I'm dating a 31 year old and now he's disappointed in me and says that I'm being used and that I need to find someone my age.. he told me that he thought I was smarter than that and don't let my first male experience be from a guy who's trying to use me and he said he was a clown and that I'm running after the 31 year old and he's not running after me
1 AnswerSingles & Dating4 years agoAm I supposed to stop seeing him?
I'm 20 years old and my dad found out I'm dating a 31 year old and now he's disappointed in me and says that I'm being used and that I need to find someone my age
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWhy is he being passive aggressive ?
I told my friend Jared today that yesterday afternoon the guy that's been trying to get with me for awhile now asked for my number for the second time so this time I gave it to him but I didn't write my number down ,
I verbally gave him my number and he actually remembered it and texted me last night and my guy friend said "well I hope he treats you right" and
I said "he isn't my boyfriend I just gave him my number" he also texted back and said "he isn't your boyfriend yet" and I didn't reply and he texted back "I guess you're not going to be texting me a lot anymore" and I texted back saying "you're my friend we're still going to talk" and he asked me "well why did you give him your number now and not the first time he asked ?"
Tl:DR; I never said I was going to stop talking to him or neglect him. All I did was give the guy my number and now he's making me feel like I abandoned him.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years agoWhy is he acting like we can be friends anymore ?
I told my friend Jared today that yesterday afternoon the guy that's been trying to get with me for awhile now asked for my number for the second time so this time I gave it to him but I didn't write my number down , I verbally gave him my number and he actually remembered it and texted me last night and my guy friend said "well I hope he treats you right" and
I said "he isn't my boyfriend I just gave him my number" he also texted back and said "he isn't your boyfriend yet" and I didn't reply and he texted back "I guess you're not going to be texting me a lot anymore" and I texted back saying "you're my friend we're still going to talk" and he asked me "well why did you give him your number now and not the first time he asked ?"
Tl:DR; I never said I was going to stop talking to him or neglect him. All I did was give the guy my number and now he's making me feel like I abandoned him.
2 AnswersSingles & Dating4 years ago