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What should I do?
I just turned 21 and I met a 30 year old at work in march and we've been going out ever since March 17th and now that we've put a label on our relationship I told my parents about him and the only problem is he's ten years older than I am and my dad doesn't want me hanging out with him. My dad actually wants to talk to him my mom has already talked to him but now my dad wants to...
My dad thinks I'm naive and that I'm doing all the intiating and that the guy I'm seeing doesn't really like me , My dad doesn't want him around the house and my dad doesn't want him in the house. My dad thinks because of his age that he's trying to use me so now the guy that I'm dating doesn't want to come over anymore or some see me anymore because he feels like
"he's not welcomed over my house" what do I do? I miss him so much and this is the first week that he hasn't came over to see me or anything and I'm having a hard time dealing with this
Tl:DR; the only reason why I told him how my dad felt is because my DAD threatened that if I didn't tell him that he was going to and now I feel like I'm not going to be able to get him back
4 Answers
- 4 years ago
Listen to your dad. As much as you probably didn't want to be told that, you need to. A 30 year old dating a 21 year old is never a good match. His intentions are not pure and will not be good for you. He is going to use your body and when something better comes along he'll split. I've seen it happen time and time again. IF you really like him as more than a friend. Do NOT have sex with him, wait 8 mo before even introducing sex into the relationship. No teasing, no sexting. IF he stays, he's really interested in you. If he doesn't, at least you found out without giving him your body that he isn't.
- MarloLv 64 years ago
Well, hopefully youre a intellectual person with a well mind.
Speak to your dad as the adult you are and explain to him that youre really into this guy.
Youre an adult and you have the choice to see whoever you want, and that youd like it if they at least gave him a chance, and respected you by not making a huge deal about it.
you cant blame them though, theyre just trying to look out for you.
but let them know that youre an adult now.
- Anonymous4 years ago
I thought he was 31 and you went lesbian with a girlfriend who doesn't express affection anymore.
