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Should I stop seeing him ?

I'm 20 years old and my dad found out I'm dating a 31 year old and now he's disappointed in me and says that I'm being used and that I need to find someone my age.. he told me that he thought I was smarter than that and don't let my first male experience be from a guy who's trying to use me and he said he was a clown and that I'm running after the 31 year old and he's not running after me

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    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Yeah, you should probably get away from that guy, because 9 times out of 10 what you're father is saying about guys like him is correct.

    What your father is saying is based on his personal experience, but you have to remember that just because most 31yr old men are just playing young girls, doesn't mean that YOUR 31yr old guy is playing you.

    I know one couple like that, guy is 34 and the girl is 23/24, and they've been together for almost 4 years now and there is no sign that they will be breaking up any time soon.

    In fairness though... the guy isn't going anywhere in life

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