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Juliette
Juliette asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 4 years ago

My boyfriend calls me fat and tells me to lose weight?

Every time I have sex w/ my boyfriend he always comments on my body afterward.. I used to be confident with my body and I love my butt, but he says that I'm bigger and it's embarrassing for him. Before he started insulting me he treated me so well and I fell for him. I still love him so much and I don't know what to do.. I've been dieting like crazy recently and I went on a water cleanse for a few days. I know it's not good for me, but his comments are getting in my head. I would hate to dump him over this b/c I still love him and he's so nice otherwise. I've talked to him about his comments and all he says is sorry, but he keeps saying them..

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  • bubula
    Lv 6
    4 years ago
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    This is horrible on so many fronts. He knows how this makes you feel and does it anyway, which is emotional abuse. He is treating you as an extension of himself (caring how HE looks to be seen with you more than about you as an individual.) He's willing to have sex with you and THEN criticize, after he's gotten what he wants. What a user! And you--do you intend to spend the rest of your life focused more on pleasing a control freak than on pleasing yourself? if not, then why are you doing it now? There is even the very real possibility that all this is in his head and you're not the least bit overweight. Is he upset because you're bigger than he is? That's absolutely childish and sexist. You say you would hate to dump him over this. I'm wondering how, given this, you could possibly stay.

    Best of luck.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Dump him not only is he lying he does not care about you ----- you are not fat and when you love someone you love them as they are for him to say you are fat is disgusting he is a jerk who does not care about you period he does not deserve your love find someone who does love you and does not insult you

  • steve
    4 years ago

    LOL

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Break up with him or lose weight. Losing weight isn't hard

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