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Would you care about how many partners your gf/bf has had?

My friend who's 20 has had 27 partners so far and she insists that people don't care about something like that. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I would care about something like that when looking for someone to have a serious relationship with. Am I the only one?

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago
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    Of course they care. 27 at 20? ******* gross. Have some self respect for your body. At 25 she's going to have 40 guys? Ew

    I would really watch the company you keep... You will end up looking like a Thot by association. Also too this is a person you should never trust around a love interest of yours xx

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    No, how many partners someone has had doesn't devalue them in any way.

    It's not about being old-fashioned, it's about you judging people's sexuality.

    I guess you can't help how you feel, but I'd say you need to unpack some pretty messed-up thinking.

  • so
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    It is good your friend has had experiences. That should be seen as a positive thing.

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    jesus Christ. yeah I know many guys would care about that. but it's not a deal breaker if she starts to settles down with one guy and changes her ways. her past is her past and if you automatically judge her on that, that's not right dude. don't do that. simply ask her why she's had that many partners.

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