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18 and still haven't fully developed?
Hey Guys, I really need some sort of encouragement here I'm getting seriously depressed here i have recently turned 18 and I look like a 14 year old kid, Im only 5 foot 7 I barely have any facial hair, I have the smallest and weakest body, I have the skinniest arms ever and always have to wear long sleeves, Im never taken seriously because people always assume Im so young, i have no luck with girls as they all think I look too young and lose interest in me immediately, I have lost all motivation to do anything anymore I don't think I can take much more of this honestly, I hate myself I can't even look myself in the mirror, sorry for ranting on here just wondering if anyone is going through anything similar, thanks.
6 Answers
- OnlookerLv 74 years ago
A couple of things. Go to a therapist. You sound like the kind of guy who says nonverbally, "Hey girls, look at me, I'm a scrawny, ugly loser." You can't do that. There are women who will be attracted to you because of the way you look. It's really important you dress nice, look nice, and stop judging yourself. It really doesn't matter what you think of your looks, it matters what a girl thinks, and frankly 50% of the way a person looks is a person's personality. So, see a therapist.
You could also talk to your doctor about seeing an endocrinologist to see if you have any hormonal problems that are affecting your development.
My suspicion is that you're a better looking dude than you think, but are really insecure, so a therapist could really help (if you're willing to do the work).
- 4 years ago
Start eating more....Go to gym (to make sure you don't get too fat)...Keep your mirror away from you for some time... BE HAPPY!
- Anonymous4 years ago
So
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- Anonymous4 years ago
I guess it means ur developing later, when everyone gets old - they'll envy ur youth
