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Would you sacrifice the chance to make our own child to be with a woman who already has kids?

I recently go in a relationship and m new girl who has two kids does not wish to go for a third and one of them have no father. I knew her way back in the day and thought I wish I had her back then but I kinda like this current situation. She told me has has no intent on going for a third and that s it too much, so I made decision to stick with her anyway compared to an opportunity to make a baby with a lesbian who wan t a child

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Confusing what you wrote. So you have a girlfriend you love, who has 2 kids. She does not want any more, so your chance to have an offspring if you stay with her is unlikely. that is a decision you have to accept if you stay in the relationship; concern of course is that she has 2 kids by 2 fathers, one she does not know which means she obviously slept around a lot. And that could make your long term relationship with her a bit shaky. Now if you have a lesbian wanting your sperm to make a baby-- that is something you'd have to agree to do of course and discuss with your current girlfriend. Not really her choice but you should find out if she has objections to iit

  • 4 years ago

    If I loved the woman who already has kids, yes I'd sacrifice the chance to have my own child. There are enough people in the world already. Love is more important than adding a few more.

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