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I have a hard time being with only one person?
I feel really mean and guilty writing this.
I am 20. Female.
I cant seem to stay true to someone. I have cheated before. Sorry, but I am being honest and I want to change. Every time I get into a relationship, I am okay for a while but soon I start to miss flirting and talking with othwr guys. But the problem is that the guys i am dating dont really have anything wrong with them, i just want more then one, or to see what is out there. Like i am not lacking intimacy or anything that makes me look for it in someone else. I can be perfectly happy with someone and then still want to talk to other guys. And when i am with the other guys, i dont want to get rid of the bond i have with the one i am dating. I want both.
I want to be true and honest but i dont know how to change this. Please help, and i already know i am a horrible person, so you domt need to tell me again.
3 Answers
- 4 years ago
Same girl I feel you but tbh I don't blame you and you are not a horrible person. Its just that you aren't ready to commit to just one person. You just are used to trying different things and Ig maybe you just aren't ready to be with just one person. Which is ok because you are still young and along the way you can learn and do better to try and help a future relationship. Don't hate yourself or beat yourself up you just want to try new things its not bad but you just aren't ready for just one person. Don't worry though you got this and I'm sure there's the right one out there for you that you will be crazy about . GOODLUCK !!
- 4 years ago
Stop dragging them down with you, go f.u.c.k as much as you want, but stop dragging them down with you.
- ?Lv 74 years ago
Apparently, you're not ready for that commitment and you are not prepared to settle for one person right now.
I don't' know why you think you're "horrible"? If you want to stick to casual dating, then do that. There's nothing wrong with dating and having no intent of commitment.
Stop thinking negatively of yourself. I usually don't suggest that people need to stop something, but thinking negatively about yourself is never a good idea.
