does every woman's husband notice every pretty young woman that passes by? or am i in my own private hell?

They all do some just do it discretly my husband jokes about it, 'God that one has made my balls go tight!' And we laugh. It's an autonomous response, a man cannot command his balls and *** go tight or have an erection, it's automatic when he gets a visual

Get over it and grow up your acting like a 14 year old jealous virgin!

Noticing pretty women is one thing. Reacting in a manner that causes pain for the woman they love is another thing entirely.

Have you talked to your husband about how his actions make you feel?

Go to marriage counseling

Not my husband. He only has eyes for me

Men notice pretty women.

Sure, husbands notice pretty young women. Of course they do! Guys with practice don't drool or pant or sprain their necks while at it though. Guys with practice hold their opinion to themselves and try not to make it an issue or be rude to their wife while they're at it. But they notice. Sure.

Love doesn't make you blind, but there's a difference between glancing and gawking

There is NOTHING all men (or all married men) do, but the vast majority of men DO notice other attractive women. Sure. Why wouldn't they? Just as the vast majority of women (married or not) notice other attractive men.

If you are in heIl because your husband notices other attractive women, you should've married a blind man.

Unless he's blind, yes.

Yes, every single one. If you haven't figured it out yet, I will let you in on the one thing you aren't considering. He chose you.

When he chose you he didn't give up his ability to identify and appreciate beauty in the world, and you didn't either. You notice hot guys all the time too and move on without thinking because you chose your husband, so why is it so hard for you to believe your husband isn't capable of doing the same thing? The only answer is that you don't trust your husband, and if so, your time together is likely going to be short. You can't be married long without trust.