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Am I with a toxic person?
I've been with him for a year. And I'm beginning to think hes wasting my time. First off, he told me not to watch porn cuz to him it considered cheating. But I've caught him watching it. He feeds me more to fatten my ***. But when I ask him to do the smallest thing like brush ur teeth or lift the seat, he doesn't. Every time we make love he talks about how good HE did. Like really? I was on top too.. he can't make me sexually confident like I try to do with him? Hes given me a sti 5 times. I've finished treatments but he won't even start his. ...like I love this guy, but after 6 months of the relationship hes starting to make me feel like I'm not good enough. I used to sleep over all the time but now he has a new job and I only stay one or two nights out of the week but he doesn't do anything with me to let me know he missed me those other nights. Either goes on his phone or passes out.
Wth should I dooooo?
4 Answers
- AlphaLv 74 years ago
A toxic person? You are the one who stays in the relationship even after he gave you STD five times in A YEAR! And you still have to ask? Do you not understand AIDS is also a STD? Do you not understand people DIE from AIDS? Sound like you have a self-destructive behavior. If you didn't give him STD, where did he get it if not by cheating on you by having sex with (several) someone else?
If you can look in the mirror and with a straight face tell yourself you love this person, you are in serious need of getting your head checked.
- seedy historyLv 74 years ago
You are being bad to yourself. Honey, it's off putting to blame HIM for your own actions. You're the one who goes over to see him. You're the one who wants to spend MORE of your time doing so! You're the one who continues to have sex with a guy who has given you multiple STI's. Just stop all this war you have declared on YOURSELF and cease putting yourself in his orbit. YOU are being your own worst enemy here. No point in blaming him for being who he is (jerky creep) when you keep sniffing around him like you think he's something good! He's not. But he's not your problem. Your problem is how you are treating yourself!!! Get this guy out of your life.
- Anonymous4 years ago
wtf leave him
