Is he nervous or uninterested?

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This kid seemed to like me last year but I never really know him and then we snapped a couple times over the summer and he showed definite signs of interest and then he ended up being in one of my classes. When I walked in I didn t see him but he said "Hey Emily" and waved to get my attention to I sat next to him. We didn t rly talk and then then the next day right before the teacher switched our seats I asked him if he had his textbook and he didn t even look at me just looked down at his paper and shook his head after hesitating and I said "um is that a yes or a no....?" And he said "no" without looking up. I took this as a definite sign of disinterest but all my friends r saying he s prolly just nervous/afraid to show that he likes me or something. What should I do? If he likes me why d he do this?

ez2tock2 · Answer

I like meeting SHY and NERVOUS People.  They are the easiest to break the ice with and get them Smiling and Laughing.  
Because they are Shy or Nervous, they usually don't have the personality to
 REJECT SOMEONE (which is another good feature about them).

TRY THIS:   "NERVOUSNESS" is in your favor 
when you tell the other person you are Nervous.

After you make contact, TALK to him Face to Face.  NOT Social Media!!!
 Just say:  "I'm kinda NERVOUS talking to you, so if I mess up, PLEASE, don't think I'm an idiot… okay?  I'm just nervous."

HE knows what it's like to be NERVOUS,  
He will be UNDERSTANDING & NICE to you.  
PLUS YOU NOW HAVE A TOPIC OF CONVERSATION 
YOU BOTH can relate too and share stories.

Smile, Laugh and Joke with him and Compliment him,
 even if it feels like he is rejecting you.

If you "Turn the Tables" on him... YOU WIN.
If He still doesn't... YOU GOT TO PRACTICE ON HIM.  (you lose nothing).

REJECTION ONLY WORKS IF YOU ACCEPT IT.
TRUE STORY:
I once let a girl know that I liked her. She told me she didn't like me "like that."
 I said "That's okay, because I'm the one that LIKES YOU, I don't care if you don't like me. I still think you're pretty." 
After that I would just smile at her, say "Hi", "Good Morning." "Hello again." OR compliment her on anything I liked about her. It took about a week, but she got use to my being friendly with her and ALWAYS smiling.  We ended up going out on a few dates. She told me she was surprised/flattered that I was still nice and smiled at her. 
She told me, NO OTHER GUY DOES THAT.  We lasted about 6 months together and then stayed friends. (YEA, we stayed friends).  She enjoyed my conversations and opinion on things. She liked that I was a gentleman with her but still outspoken, even if she didn't always like what I had to say or what I thought of things.  She liked that I was REAL with her.

If you let someone DISCOURAGE you, because they don't feel about you, like you do them. You'll lose and you'll hurt. BUT if you JUST SMILE and be a nice human being to them, they might start to like the idea that AT LEAST ONE PERSON in the whole school 
(or wherever you are) likes them.

Your Heart and Desires Are Always About YOU. 
Who you "Like" DOES NOT count, until they are by your side. 
Who cares WTF they “Want”, “Think” or “Feel”.  
That is none of your business!!   
Your Business or Goal is to make them yours.
Then give a "F" what they  “Want”, “Think” or “Feel”.

In my situation, We Each Spoke Our Piece.  Her's NEVER Counted.  
I Listened to be Courteous, NOT Controlled.

CONFIDENCE is not about Succeeding.  It's about NOT BEING AFRAID, 
to Step Up, whether you get Accepted or Rejected.

? · Answer

He may be feeling embarrassed by being split from sitting next to you. Try to talk to him about his behavior outside of class and see what he has to say then you'll get the answer you seek.

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