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? asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 4 years ago

What should I do?

I am going to marry a girl but still, she does not really understand me.. my marriage itself will be so ******* rich! my father owed money from the Bank. I hate my culture. And now, I dont know what to do. I wanna run away but yet, I cant break their hearts who arranged my marriage. Seems my family want me to marry only because of the moral burden they got.

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  • .
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    So you either hurt the feelings of those who arranged your marriage, so you can ultimately be happy making your own decisions....OR you and your chosen wife can be unhappy, because you don't want to upset the people who arranged your marriage, even though their choice is affecting your entire life (not theirs).

    If you choose to allow someone else to make your decisions for you, then you don't have the right to be upset about those decisions. Either happily accept what others have chosen for you, and make the best of it, or take control of your own life and make your own decisions and deal with the consequences (like an adult).

  • lala
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    Do not marry this girl

    Tell your parents how you are unhappy

    and if they do not understand

    well run

    Do not worry their heart will not be break for a long time

  • Gaia’s Garden
    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    YOu cam make the marriage about learning about each other.

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