Does she love him? Shall she break up or continue?

My friend has been in a relationship for more the 2.5 years. They said they were serious but taking it slow not to rush marriage. She asked him a year ago to be married by max July 2017, and he promised to make it true. At the end of 2016 his department shutdown and he got out of work and not finding a good job with good income. He never spoke to his family about her. She wanted his father to buy him a house for living.

Then he told her he must do everything on his own. She felt betrayed and that she shouldn t be available for him. She knows he loves her, but love isn t enough. They were in harmony until he didn t keep his promise. Now she tried to leave him but she still loves him. She asked for a breakup but he did not let her. Now he told his family about her which they promised to help with the house. She recently had some issues at work and home and isn t sure to proceed with him or not. She feels unsafe and not loving or respecting him as before. Any advice?