I look okay...not great...not huge and terrible...and I can't attract any prettier worth while girls, when other fatsos can a lot of times?

It's not your body. It's your posture, how you handle yourself in social situations, your verbal (and non-verbal) communication, how you're dressed, and your confidence (which is NOT arrogance or aggressiveness).

Looks aren't everything.

Okay so, I mean, how is this right just or fair...just because X fatso guy happens to have the gift of gabb he gets a really pretty girl and you can tell he doesn't take care of himself well...then...absolutely nothing I can do ever considering not much comes to mind usually naturally and uncontrollably. How is this at all right just or fair to me?? ****!!