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How to deal with my husband's jealousy?

My husband and me were spending the afternoon with a friend of him yester afternoon, we had lunch together. It was so warm and sunny that my boyfriend's friend decided to pull his shirt off. My husband tends to be really jealous sometimes. Everything was OK in the meeting till my husband discovers that I was staring attently his friend's man boobs. When he found it out, he began to complain with me in front of his friend, and even tried to hurt me with a knife. When we got back home, he started to discuss again. How can I explain him that I was seeing his friend's face and not his boobs? I feel that I were disrespectful with my beloved one. We're an homosexual couple married one year ago.

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago
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    Seek out a counselor well versed with lgbt clients. Maybe get a referral from your local gay community center or pink pages. You should go for marriage counselor my. In addition he must go for anger management and learn to deal with his anger. If he won’t change his ways you have to leave him. Give him an ultimatum. This can’t go on. It’s not safe. It can’t be excused. That is abuse.

  • 4 years ago

    He tried to hurt you with a KNIFE because you looked at some shirtless dude??

    Dude... Run away and call the motherfvcking police. That ***** is crazy.

  • 4 years ago

    Jealousy is no excuse to hurt anyone with a knife...harming you is also disrespectful...it is more serious issue than just you looking at other blokes.

  • 4 years ago

    If someone threatened you with a knife, that is abuse and domestic violence and you need to get out of the relationship right now. I am sorry. This probably isn't what you want to hear. But someone who would threaten you or hurt you does not love you and never did.

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