How do you overcome rape and molestation?

Talk to a properly trained person who deals in these matters. In the UK we have victim support and they are very helpful.

Also time does heal. I knew a person who was drugged and raped. It took her 3 years before she could socialize again and be ok around men.

Talk therapy with a good counselor.

It is different if the government was any way involved rather than an independent person.

Intensive therapy. See a professional.

With a handgun

Talk. You cannot overcome it alone. Depression sucks. And the fact you have been through something so terrible. Others who will listen and reflect on the situation is what you need in your life. If you can find a group of people who have been through similar situations. That is also a great way to vent out. Let it out when you talk. You don't need to hold back tears either. People are there for comfort. Seriously, you are not alone in this fight.

honestly IDK, it just depends on the person

Counseling. Go talk to someone so you don't bottle up your feelings and thoughts.

I would just see therapy and have doctors help you, they can help you cope with it if not prescribe something to make the help pain go away.