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Should I tell her I like her again?

So I told my crush I liked her and she responded well but because of other obstacles she said if somethings meant to be it will be.

Since then we’ve been texting everyday and even stayed on the phone till 3am somedays. We laugh with each other and she’s seemed to get closer with me, playfully hitting me, complimenting me.

Now it’s never awkward between us but I feel like we’re just back to square one but she knows how I feel.

Should I tell her again? I don’t want to ruin anything but I don’t wanna be led on.

Or I should I tell her I’m going to back off as I’m falling for her more everyday?

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    Lv 7
    4 years ago

    I think she already knows. The key question is whether or not she's a strong woman. Many people spend too much time in high school on relationships. My recommendation is that you don't group date until you're a freshman in high school and that you don't one-on-one date until you're a junior in high school. The reason for this suggestion is that only about two percent of high school sweethearts who marry end up having a fifty year marriage.

    Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.

    May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, mouth and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak mean people say, do, or think.

    My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this girl unless she’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!

    PS Strong men attract strong women like magnets (as well as weak women - so be careful). The best way to get to know a strong woman without dating is to participate in the activities of a community service or a school organization.

    Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
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