Is marriage worth it for men these days? Why or why not?

It's not worth for anybody. What's wrong with just living together?

hell no! worst mistake ever. I was married for 10 years! I hated everyday. You end up becoming roomates pretty much. No more sex...or sex becomes routing and boring. You cannot eat the same plate of food the rest of your life! That would be miserable. Enjoy being single and hook up with as many women as possible. Also, try going to Colombia...I go 2 times a year. Hook up with beautiful young women. No lie...I hook up with apporx 5 girls a day...starting in the morning. Why would I want to be married the same nagging women the rest of my life??

the whole men in the world would really not be able to get married for u ...I think u gotta get wiser and thing if its worth for u to get married

don ever marry men of these days. u dono when they leave u

No, because feminism has turned all Western women in to scary monsters. Like the western woman who was in here asking how to collect $11,000 in back alimony from her victim. Men are DONE. If you try to be a man, you can't find a girl to marry. You have to play the female role in the marriage just to try to maintain your marriage. But then it falls apart anyway, because women have everything they think they want and then realize that they are married to a girly-man and divorce him. Only they still aren't satisfied, so they sue him for half his income forever, just to make sure that he'll never have a moment of peace or happiness, ever...with anyone.

Men are wising up. They either go to SouthEast Asia to look for a wife or a girlfriend, or they stay single (no wife, no girlfriend either...)

Nope. Not worth it at all. Except for only two men i know who have married foreign women the rest are not too thrilled with the returns on the investments. you can tell by their warn down appearance that marriage has knocked decades off them.

These men suddenly lack the momentum that once made them great. it's like they are stuck. Sabotaged. Their once great burning torch has been reduced to a flicker. It's like they got Cancer they are just withering away. Money isn't coming in it is just going out. Nothing is being saved because she is spending it all. That tells me a lot about what i'm missing out on.

Women not being reliable in the marriage is the number one crime. Come to think of it they never were. marriage doesn't change them at all. I am always hearing men say they are not married to an adult but taking care of a child who thinks she is an adult. They don't dedicate themselves to the job. They think they should be pampered and that just doesn't jive in these tough economical times. they are too petty to trust to hold their end without escaping their responsibility. The stories of women cheating is many. it's shocking to hear of cheating when women were supposed to be all about love and commitment.

What's really strange is when you consider marriage is really what women always wanted. That's all they talked about growing up. Yet they are the first to quit a marriage. it seems that after a year and a half they all spring a leak and head into another mans arms and leave their husband with divorce papers and the demand for a weekly allowance for the rest of their life.

Perhaps this was their intention all along. maybe that explains why they are so adamant that they won't marry a guy who offers them a prenuptial agreement. I don't know. But what i do know is they can't be trusted. it's no question they are not worthy of marriage but recently it's become clear that they may not be worthy acquaintances either.

No, it is not. Guys get married so we can stop chasing tail. Getting married, we give up some freedoms, for sure. Our income gets marked like a mafia hit. We do it because we are signing up for a lifetime of ***. And then reality sets it: she doesn't like sex, and she doesn't love me. And its not just these days, it stretches back to the 1970's, that's about when getting married started being a bad deal for guys.

Sure. Love, companionship, family, quality of life, and more.

Yes! Still marriage is good for man and woman.

Bc it gives stable love life, protect each other , help each other, etc.

Yes, but choose WELL. You need to be friends, Lovers and stable together.