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I made a mistake with a girl I love and now Im scared I will lose her.?
Long story short I invited a girl I just started being in a relationship with to a party. I made a huge mistake of drinking to much and doing something that I regret doing. I put her in a terrible situation and now I am scared I will lose her forever, and I do then I completely deserve it for what I did to her, I am giving her space to think about the relationship and my actions, but I have talked to may people and have gotten mixed results on what to do. I have been told to wait for her to contact me, but others have told me to wait a little bit and reach out to her first. I have never put someone I loved in this situation and I feel horrible and don't know what to do. Ive stayed up every night since the incident happened thinking what I should have done differently. Any advice (Good or Bad) at all would help thanks again
To update those who are asking what I directly did it was this. I was very drunk and throwing up she was assisting me and apparently I was telling her a bunch of lovey-dovey kind of things and me for some reason I put both my hands around her neck, please keep in mind I have never put my hands on a women and I DO NOT endorse those actions sober or drunk, she has a history of partners being violent and it hurts me to all h**l that I did that to her.
4 Answers
- 3 years ago
This incident sounds very bad to me, also seeing you don't want to talk much about it. I could say I went through something similar and I really feel bad for the girl. Even if you stay together it might **** her up. It all depends on her, maybe just ask her if you could talk or if she needs more time. just know that sorry sometimes isn't enough to forgive some actions.
- Anonymous3 years ago
I find the best thing a guy can do when he makes a mistake is to contact her explaining how bad you feel and explain that you were drunk and she deserved to be treated better. If you ignore it for too long she might think you don't care. There's nothing worse than having someone make a mistake and walking off like nothing happened. Not that i'm saying that's what you did but you need to make it clear to her that you are scared of losing her and tell her you'll make it up to her. Try showing it in your actions if you can though, as people say actions speak louder than words, so she'll be more inclined to believe what you mean.
- Anonymous3 years ago
How on earth can anyone give you advice unless you tell us what you actually did?
At this point in time the only thing specific you said is that you drank too much. So not drinking would be wise if you can't drink responsibly. Other than that, we do not have ESP. Are we talking flirting with another girl or rape or what?
