What is my relationship status from how he behaves?

I met X last year through an old friend then I moved to the city, 1-2 months later he did the same (same city) for work...we just loved hanging out, drinking/eating then one night i snogged him and from then we were having sex (as well as what we did previously). Because I have only had white b/f s and shags i still found it hard to really get into it all and after months of putting him off for eve/nights/mornings with him here and there, his requested cinema trip etc...i ve pushed him away a little. Now that mist has cleared and i see him not just as a person i can chat to for hours and enjoy but also a gent. he opens doors for me, gives me his coat, lifts my chin up to passionately kiss me, lock hands with me even in public and he pays for everything and even put on soothing music for when we get intimate. with the bad (which others may say but i don;t and i don t think he does either)...we are all about the present nothing else matters, we are still on condom sex which doesn t feel the same plus i think it makes him *** too quick and I wish for us to get tested before he goes inside me naked ...How does this relationship sound? like were friends who f***? Lovers? Honeymoon period? b/f & g/f? Also, how do I get him to take the tests and also reassure him about the cumming too quick?