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internalized homophobia???
im a girl and I'm 15 and.... i guess it's just strange. i've always been into girls now that i think about it but only once i started to attach a label to it do i start to feel like it's fake and i'm not actually gay and i'm just tricking myself. i haven't felt attracted to anyone in a long time and i like a lot of like.. guys from video games but i really have no interest in guys irl but the problem is it feels like i have no interest in anyone which isn't true because i used to before i thought about being gay and now i just feel sad.. its also kind of ridiculous because i simultaneously recognize i have a crush on a girl but i also tell myself I'm straight. i just hate this honestly.. i always thought i was weird before because i haven't ever had a crush on anyone and id feel excluded and like i was strange and i guess a lot of stuff got internalized and idkkkkkk
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- reme_1Lv 73 years agoFavorite Answer
You're a teenager. These are not the best years of your life. After high school is so much better.
Go join some social activities that you really enjoy. You'll meet people there with similar tastes.
If you keep having confusing thoughts call the gay center and , talk to the counselor, and maybe join a social group of girls who are questioning their feelings too.
Just remember we all get the message about our true feelings at the same time, in the same way, or at the same age.
Heck I finally figured it out at 25. Late bloomer : )HUGS from a senior lesbian
- Anonymous3 years ago
Abandoned the gays lifestyle for good my girl.
Source(s): Me. A post post-op transgender for 10 years - 3 years ago
It sounds like you're bisexual and just haven't found a real connection with anyone. So it's making you feel like you don't really like anyone at all. I don't feel like that's true, based on what you've said it seems like you have been interested in many people. It's ok if you're bi, It's normal. There's same sex couples all around the world. It's possible that you could end up with a man or woman. What will matter though is that you're happy. Don't close yourself off to something and end up missing a shot at happiness. As you get older and start dating you will figure out what you do or don't like.
