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Ladies what should say to a girl when i first message her?

So I’ve tried to talk to a lot of girls and when i DM them or first snap then i have said messages like “hey you’re really cute 😍” or “hey you’re so beautiful 😍” in other words I’ve complimented a girl in my first message. For responses I’ve gotten soemthjng like “aww thank you” or “thanks” or they would just block me. After awhile i realized most of the girls are creeped out when i say that. So then ive said and asked to girls in my first message saying something like or exactly “hey how are you? I know we don’t know each other but wanna know you better! Wanna meetup tomorrow or sometime next week 😊?” So i wanted to set up a date right away so i can see her in person. They still block me or they say no to that! What am i doing wrong? What should i say or do instead? Help me out please!

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  • Dragos
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    You're being to direct. Just have a conversation and go from there.

  • eric
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    First mistake is your moving a little to fast take it slow make your first message funny that's what I tend to do breaks the ice and then after we start a conversation I'll throw in a complement so it shows that I'm interested after for talking for more than a couple hours and she seems interested I'll ask her out don't ever just straight up ask out a girl because chance are she will say no because she doesn't even know who you are and nobody will just go in a date with someone they don't feel comfortable with.

  • 3 years ago

    Most of the times, girls have superstitions, there have been stories of rapers/pedofiles that message women. You have to earn the lady's trust. Maybe send a picture of yourself, asking if you are attractive enough for them.

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