Why is revenge so difficult?

Revenge isn't difficult at all. My ex was pretty awful. She was screwing an airplane salesman. He was going to give her a ride to impress her. A friend of mine worked at the same FBO. When the BF showed up to do his pre-flight, my buddy was just closing the airplane's cowl. He walked past the BF asked if he knew me, and told the BF that he loved me like a brother. The BF disappeared! Split! Never showed his face again! Revenge! Later the ex moved out to live with a BF. Left me to raise 4 girls on my own. Living well is the BEST revenge. We prospered without her. A few years later, she asked if she could come back. My kids all chimed in "NO WAY" before I could answer. Sweet revenge! She dumped a BF because he had cancer. When SHE got ovarian cancer, HER BF dumped her. Revenge!

Because most people do have a conscience and would feel guilt.

Dont bother with revenge because its pointless, just move on with your life

You can mind fresh .

Tell her friends and family that she is a liberal. I realize this is extreme but I think the situation warrants it.

Because your probably a very caring person.

Deeply Caring people have trouble hurting others.

Divorce her.

Revenge may seem sweet, but it isn't lasting and often leads to serious regret, guilt, and other problems. It's best avoided.

not worth it.

because trust is very important to a man. it means love. men die for that.

women have the meaning of lust and love switched. all too often if they are bored they will cheat. they don't get the importance of a man's trust. because if i am married to her how am i supposed to give my life for someone i no longer respect? you can't just explain that away. and a marriage counselor won't help cause he'll suggest you meet her half way. when she was the one who fu**** up! why the hell should you even have to endure that nonsense when you did nothing wrong!

there is something very disagreeable about being in the same area with a woman who has just betrayed you. it's difficult to even be in the same room let alone in the same bed. it's nerve wracking.

she's totally damaged goods.

it's sorta like if someone takes a big wet bite out of my cheeseburger and then hands it to me... What the hell am i supposed to do with that? i'm not eating it. take it it's yours.

i'd just leave her if i were you. just file for divorce. explain your case. shut her down. stack the deck against her n court with enough issues that you don't have to pay her a dime. in fact try to flip it so you get money from her each month. that's the best revenge. that'll teach her.