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Do Long Distant Relationships work?

I've been talking to this guy. I'be never thought of a LD relationship as a 25 year old. I've met plenty men but grown fond of this one.We were taking about it going further until I noticed him commenting hearts and kissy faces to his girl friends and I freaked out not because I'm jealous but I thought to myself this bothers me because we are so far apart and I will have trust issues later on...I just can't wrap my mind around why he would comment them under all his girl friends...to me it's attention seeking. I'm sort of confused. Should I keep the friendship?

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  • 3 years ago
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    They do, though it takes extra work. You sound skeptical, so I would keep him as a friend and not pursue unless it gets hotter.

  • 3 years ago

    If it's just a friendship. People need to realize they can't know someone online or know if there is chemistry or attraction toward someone over the internet. These things are only discovered in person.

    Emotionally connected is possible online. But most people who finally meet their LDR person, in person, meet someone they never expect. It's true.

    So if the two of you do not have the resources to visit each other, meet and then continue meeting if there is that connection, it's a huge waste of time.

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    If you two aren't already together and he has know these girls for a long time its not such a huge deal. If you take the relationship further and he is doing this still then I would be concerned. I would keep the friendship.

  • 3 years ago

    Only if you are both adults and you are both at an age and stage in life where you guys can get married

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  • J
    Lv 7
    3 years ago

    I personally don't believe in LD you will always miss the physical part of the equation the bonding one close to another, I can see my self having a LD friend but not a romantic relationship.

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