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I'm 18 & haven't been in a relationship yet. What's wrong with me?
This is more common than I think but up to an extant. I mean I've never even kissed someone so I've definitely still got my v card (not that I'm complaining about that) but it's not like I don't try. Although I rarely get to know someone I'm attracted to I manage to get the number but when I just ask a generic question to start up a convo over text like how's the new year or whatever just being nice I get ghosted on. Females are into more than looks and while I'm no Christian Bale I'm not ugly like I'm not atrocious I'm just not capable of growing a beard Im a lightskinned Latino look like a white boy im multilingual spiritual intellectual something not many people give me credit for I have a babyface. But I'm tall, skinny which is a downside because when I worked out I had females out of my league just saying hi for no reason even though we were already near each other for a while. But I'm finishing high school and I don't really have a family or support system which can be depressing but I fear I'm gonna die alone because I already know I'm gonna die young I've just always had that feeling. I'm 18 btw
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- Happy-2Lv 73 years agoFavorite Answer
Q: What's wrong with me?
A: At least seven things: 1) You think being a virgin is a big deal; 2) you ask generic questions by text rather than interesting questions; 3) you say females are into more than looks and then describe every little reason why you don't like your looks; 4) you think women say hi to you for "no reason"; 5) you have no family; 6) you're depressed; 7) you believe you're going to die young.
If you're going to talk bad about yourself, why would anyone want to be in a relationship with you?
- 3 years ago
Find a new circle of people to run in. If you don't like what's being said (or not being said), then change the conversation. Respectfully, the things you're worrying about are ridiculous. Learn to like yourself. It doesn't mean being some self-obsessed jerk. But confidence is sexy. Running around like a nervous and obedient puppy seeking adoration is the opposite of that.
Quit worrying about when you have that first relationship (it's not a race). I didn't have mine until I was 19. Didn't bother me; it happened on my terms and it was fantastic.
One tip: when you do see someone, make that first question interesting, or at the very least an ice-breaker (if you can pull off humour that works, but not everyone can). Then, ask an open-ended question. Something that might make her think a bit (your biggest sex organ is your brain). Oh, and when she does reply, LISTEN to what she says, and use that as a jumping-off point.
Think about what's important to you in a partner/GF. Write it down.
Venture forth.
- Blue SkyLv 73 years ago
Nothing is wrong with you. Just don't find yourself in the same situation when your 25.
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- ?Lv 73 years ago
Nothing is wrong with you, you just haven't found the right person yet, when you stop looking and just live your life day by day, you will find the right person, what you can also do is join a group that shares something near and dear to your heart, and you will meet lots of people there who have the same interests as you, and then you never know, you might meet your special someone there!
Just stop looking so hard, you will find her :-)
