Guy keeps flaking, is he playing me?

He's not that into you. I know guys who drive 6 hours every Friday to be with the woman they love. If a guy isn't interested enough to hitchhike if he has to in order to get to you, move on.

Stop trying to schedule a date. Tell him it's up to him now. When I was dating, I gave the guy one shot to cancel. Life happens, I've had t cancel on dates before. But if he bails on the rescheduled date, then its his turn to schedule something.

Just tell him you'd really like to see him and spend time with him, but he obviously has a lot of things going on. If he wants to see you for a date, he can let you know when he's free and you can go from there. Don't keep rescheduling for him. If he makes the effort to schedule the date, then he is more likely to show up.

I don't think he's playing you. To me, you simply are the girl he'd like to go out with....unless something better comes along.

I've known people like that. You have plans with them, and an opportunity to be with someone they like better, or do something they like better comes along, and they just flake on you.

Do yourself a favor. Stay away from that guy. He's always going to be that way, and you will always come out 2nd best.