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Brother cheats on his girlfriend?
He’s 20 and I’m 18. He has nice girl. She’s pretty and smart, goes to college and I know she’s faithful to him but honestly he cheats on her. I know he cheats because he brags about a girl he met up with. He tells me stuff like this and I guess it’s because he trusts me, I am his brother I guess. But sometimes I feel like she deserves better. He’s kucky to have a girl like that. I’ve know her since freshmen year and I honestly am trying to find a girl like that. Sometimes I want to tell her, would that be like the ultimate betrayal? I still care for my bro obviously but this girl doesn’t need to be cheated on.
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- AlphaLv 73 years ago
If you care for your bro and this girl, then you should FIRST tell your brother you don't think he is doing right by his girlfriend. Brother or not, by remaining silent, you are tacitly giving him your approval for his actions. If you care about someone, then you do not let them do things that you believe are wrong.
As for telling the girl, that is a tough call. I would say if things should progress to a point where you think serious harm can come from it, then you cannot stay silent. She is going to get her feelings hurt and heart broken eventually because a cheater is ALWAYS found out.
Your brother like many cheaters, thinks he is the one exception and can get away with it either because he thinks he is so much smarter than others or that he is so special the universe is going to give him a free pass. Isn't that why anyone cheats - because they believe they can get away with it?
