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Should I call him out? Dating advice?
I’ve been hanging out with this guy but he doesn’t seem into it anymore but he’s not telling me that. When ever we see each other he always holds my hands and Kisses me and say he had a great time etc 🙄. I invited him over for dinner last week and he respomded a DAY KATER AGREEING TO we had dinner, played instruments and we slept together for the 2nd time and he asked when can he see me again and if I was around next week. We texted and he suggested that he cook for me and we play music at his place (I play drum he play piano). He went on a short weekend vacay and said he’ll see what day works for me once he gets back. He never contacted me when he got back so two days later I sent him a random text about music and he responded but NEVER MENTIONED US LINKING UP! The next day I asked if he wanted to jam it out Thursday or Friday and he responded A WHOLE DAY LATER saying: Sorry. I was out all day yesterday. And that Thursday he has a work event and Friday he has a party then asks if I’m around next week!!! How can I call him out of this? Do I just forget about him and not respond. Will he become even more distant if I call him out? He’s 30 btw. I kind of want to respond but not seem like a push over.
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- BertstaLv 73 years agoFavorite Answer
Musicians (and arty types in general) are pretty flaky individuals. It's to do with how their brains are wired. Mentally they inhabit a different world.
You need to control him a lot better or get used to it. You can't be vague when arranging a date. Activity/location/day/time. Stated clearly. Ask him to respond by <time/date> otherwise you'll make other plans. If he doesn't respond to a text, you can also call him btw. He'll find that discipline very stressful but too bad, so sad. That's how it's gotta be sometimes, just don't overload him.
- Gaia’s GardenLv 73 years ago
He calls you when he’s not doing anything else. I suggest you not call him out, but see him if he calls. Just have fun with the jams, and find someone else to go on serious dates.
