How can I stop being a toxic person?

I don't like what your bf said.

People nowadays are very superficial and disconnected. You, like me, are serious. Few people are like this any more. I look to older people for conversation and understanding.

Honey. 🙂

You're exactly who you were meant to be.

Dump the boy toy. Say fvck everybody else. And do you.

I know quite a few people who are genuine, conniving a$sholes. I respect that. Even when my head is on the chopping block from a few (Geminis).

Why? Because you're genuinely being you. And I think every human being is perfect as they are. Flaws and all.

Stop worrying about being nice and be YOU.

The best advice I can give is to find like-minded people who can roll with your punches. It's the only way you can find people who can survive your friendship.

Wouldn't have it any other way.

Hi, I must admit I'm similar when it comes to friends but i have my husband who is like my best friend. I find it a bit sad that your boyfriend doesn't include you as a friend, but that might just be me.

As for making friends, are you perhaps very shy or become very anxious around people, that's my problem. If so then i would suggest finding a club or an evening class that you could enjoy. That way you're around the same people at least once a week and can slowly gain the courage to talk to them.

It doesn't even need to be huge. If you hear someone say they saw a new movie, maybe you could ask them their opinion of it and build the conversation from there. Or complement their outfit. It will help them see you're friendly and willing to interact and Want to know them but at your pace.

If you eventually feel confidant enough you could always see if they want to meet up for drinks, or to see a movie as a group.

Hope this helps.

Join a hiking club right now. Fall might come early this year... join a hiking club!

Sounds normal to me. That is roughly the age friends get married and your left with more time on your hands and that’s also the age when it’s difficult to make new friends and not just acquaintances. Had you got married before your friend she would have felt the same as you.

Have you ever stopped to think that maybe it's not you but the people around you? You do not strike me as a toxic person