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Polls: People get angry with me for talking to people who hurt me in the past, I'm really forgiving, but are my friends victim blaming?

Just curious actually. I don't feel bad for myself, I just keep talking to people that hurt me, and I ignored my ex's weird suicidal drunk text because my friends keep saying I should not respond to stuff like that because he's trying to manipulate me?

But also, like, wouldn't it suck of he is dead? I just want that butthole to be happy without me.

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    Lv 7
    3 years ago
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    Sometimes, abducted people develope sympathy for their abductor - it is a way of mental and physical survive strategy. It seems to me that you develope a similar behavoir. I only can give you my personal advice which is to let these people alone and take care about your own mental health. These people will not stop to hurt you because you showed them that you are a willing dustbin for their aggressions.

    edit: I tripped about one of your answers - you have reflux? drink apple cidar vinnegar daily in a glass of water.

    yahoo-mail system does not work.

    (Trust me, I am not a doctor)

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