My confidence has been knocked down whats shall i do?

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2 years ago i was the confidentest (if thats a word) girl ever, like i wasnt afraid to speak up whenever but know its like my mouth is zipped. Im so shy around others and i find it difficult to make nee friends like really difficult. I started a new college ive been here for a year now and i cant believe it i still havent made friends. Thos has never happend before. I always avoid communicating with people im my class. I really want to start making friends and be more confident. Any ideas would help me

Gert · Answer

We'd have to know what caused you to lose your confidence.

pucman1961 · Answer

So it’s just the beginning of a school year. Give things a chance.
   Start by smiling , say hello . Don’t worry about success right away. Recognize what your doing wrong .
    Also don’t try so hard. Just be yourself .ask people about themselves.  Tell them what you like . 
   Join a club

Helen · Answer

So what happened? Most people don't lose confidence or change their personalities for no reason at all. In most cases, something happens for that to happen. Often it's a negative social experience - a breakup, a humiliating encounter, rejection, bullying, betrayal etc.
If you can find the root cause, that will help you in overcoming it. It might be beneficial for you to talk to a counselor.

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My confidence has been knocked down whats shall i do?

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