I didn’t orgasm during sex the first time?

Ugh! Another one of your questions, are you a troll?

No, it is not normal or ok at all. A woman is multi orgasmic and can squirt (often), you should know that. It has to be embarrassing or hard for you, not to orgasm. You begin to wonder what you did wrong. You blame yourself. Even if he never did this before, he should have been doing what felt good/right and been watching you. I love everything about knowing I made my partner orgasm, "I did that" - "made them feel like that".

Ya, women complain about it a lot., It is a partner who is not there (emotionally/intellectually) or only cared about themselves. You said you can masturbate and do it - It is not really hard. A partner can make their partner orgasm.,.... Too many men use women, do not care or their mind is on something else.

If your boyfriend didn't make you orgasm when making out that could be why you didn't. You could have bleed from having your hymen broke during intercourse which is normal if it was you first time. Next time make sure he makes you come first before having intercourse.

Define sex.

If you think of sex as only penis-to-vaginal penetration then no orgasm is normal: only around 40% of women orgasm from penetrative sex alone - most pleasure for women comes from clitoral stimulation and sex (aka 'foreplay') leading up to penetration. If not aroused enough then penetration may not feel pleasurable, it may also cause pain and bleeding due to penetration being forced (when fully aroused the vagina is not only responsive but also lubricates, opens, and increases in size).

You not reaching orgasm isn't about him, his feeling sad is his problem to deal with and not your responsibility, don't feel it's on you to orgasm to make him happy. Sex between any new couple isn't always great at first because it takes time to learn each others bodies, things like masturbation help as you can better explain to him what you like - communicate, let him know what feels good.

The Great No-Orgasm-From-Intercourse Conundrum - http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/the_great...

How Do I Have Good Sex? - https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-and-re...

That is for you to discover for yourself. It will help you to continue to discuss with him what feels good to you and how you can make that happen on him.

You had sex first time your vagina is smaller than the organ of your partner, so the bleeding may be due to some tear of vaginal wall. The bleeding from rupture of hymen is in drops lasted for a few minutes but from tear it is quite bit more and take a bit more time to stop.

The orgasm depends on arousal of women, so next time give more time for foreplay.

console your partner not to feel guilty, do better next time.

It takes practice. Almost nobody is any good at it the first time.

If you want him to do it well, teach him. Communicate clearly when things are good and when they aren't so he can learn how to rock your gypsie soul.

This is very common unfortunately, but showing him how you like it done would really help. If that amount of bleeding continues, then see a doctor.

Bleeding for an hour is not normal.

You need to show him how you make yourself orgasm. Most females orgasm through clitoral stimulation.