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GIRLFRIEND tells me she can find someone better and is talking to a better guy now?

Sup guys what would you guys do in this situation. I’m a Gemini my GF is a Cancer. She gets mad over the smallest things and it escalate all the time. She got mad with me today and is not taking anything I say she has to be right for it all. She started telling me I’m not sh*t to her and that she is texting a better dude now. We been together for five years and this is not the first time she said this once she gets mad. Not really sure how to deal with it as in taking care of her now and she has like no money. I don’t wanna be with her much longer and if I did I would not marry her in the long run. She is possibly pregnant with my kid as we were trying for the past three weeks. Every sincethen I’m losing feelings for her since im constantly disrespected when she gets upset. I’m not perfect by any means but I need advice on how to handle this or maybe I’m just looking for a place to vent idk.

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  • 2 years ago

    I would tell her the truth, your situation wont become any better without it, then i would tell her that is is time to move on because that is a toxic relationship bud

  • 2 years ago

    Seems like the expiration date keeps being moved. Its pretty clear if you two are not happy now and not working towards it its not happening. End it asap, youre both dragging yourselves through the mud for no reason. Life is too short and there are too many people to be having a good time with than to feel stuck helping her. Most women are emotional creatures as is so dont take it personally, however you need to stop enabling her, its time for her to support herself be a real woman, there are too many grown *** women who dont treat people not just men but PEOPLE this way. She needs to grow up. Shes not a baby. If she found a new dude, even better, you can tell her to go ask him to help her.

  • J
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    man you really have to ask this question??? and please forget a Gemini and Cancer BS, what you need to do is find your manhood and let this girl go, she pretty much just told you that you aren't that important to her, what else do you need? sounds to me that you are her doormat brother, find your man hood and walkaway from it.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    So you don't want to marry her, you don't see a long term future with her, and you don't even like her as a person...but you are trying to get her pregnant? Please do the human race a favor and get a vasectomy.

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