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Leandra asked in HealthWomen's Health · 2 years ago

I bleed after sex every time?

I lost my virginity a month ago to my boyfriend. I bleed a lot which lasted for a day or two. Now whenever have sex I bleed a little bit just spotting then it’ll go away after a few mins. Last night we had sex 3 times and I bleed a little bit wasn’t sure if it was because I got off my period a few days ago it might of been old blood

I don’t have an std and I’ve never done anything sexual before him. My vagina doesn’t get as wet as I guess the average women’s would... what could this me? I don’t hurt at all.

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  • alan P
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    This doesn't very alarming. I suppose its possible that you are getting some slight tearing even if you are not hurting. One way of making sure you are wet and aroused is to receive oral sex if you are comfortable with that idea - or maybe you are doing that already. Do foreplay until neither of you can wait any longer. I know its only a figure of speech but don't think of sex as losing your virginity. You have not lost anything. Sex should be a sharing and giving experience.

  • 2 years ago

    Spend more time on foreplay and use more lube. The issue is the lack of lubrication and/or the tightened vagina. When you're fully aroused, your vagina expands from about 3" to about 7" (dilates wider, too) which allows for easy and comfortable penetration. If you're lubed up but not fully aroused (typically takes about 20 minutes of foreplay, on average), your vagina will be more constricted, and thus forcing something in with create friction, pain and blood.

  • Laura
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Take more time with foreplay. If you aren't wet enough he will tear you on the inside and cause bleeding. This is what has been happening.

  • 2 years ago

    You may need to visit a gynaecologist.

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  • 2 years ago

    You seriously need to use a lubricant, he's tearing your skin inside during sex. Doesn't matter if you can't feel it, there's tearing going on and that means you can get infection through that too.

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