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What would you do if your partner cheated in you, twice?

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Update 2:

I'm the boyfriend in the relationship.

Update 3:

We had a huge arguement before hand and it was why she did it, and I caused the arguement by hiding something i did two years ago, that i couldn't say without breaking down, so I kinda caused the whole thing, but i didn't cheat on her, and she didn't on me until this happened

Update 4:

I do know what I should do, but I don't really want to, It's just complicated, she's pregnant and so I don't know what the **** I meant to do

Update 5:

And she cheated on me twice after the arguement we had but then she told me straight to my face herself she cheated twice, so i want to forgive her as we were both angry and we both didn't think straight during that month, so i need help please.

Update 6:

READ THIS BEFORE ANSWERING --> I AM THE BOYFRIEND IN THIS RELATIONSHIP

just wanna make that clear

Update 7:

also im 16

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  • tony
    Lv 7
    2 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    time to dial up some self esteem buddy...go. There is nothing else to think or do. You keep your pride ,you don't talk to her anymore, eventually you will overpass the pain sooner or later. it may be time to take stock of your relationship.The best advice is to never stay with someone for fear of being alone. This is going to be a difficult road whichever path you choose. Give yourself the time to grieve, to understand how you feel, and to decide if you are willing to give it another try. If the answer is no, then have faith in yourself. The fact that you found someone once means that you are a person who is worthy of being cared about and loved. You will find someone again, and it may be the person who values your relationship and you, enough to not put you through such pain.

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  • 2 years ago

    Either hope it’s not yours or that she has a miscarriage. Break up with her ASAP, like right now.

  • 2 years ago

    I have a friend whose wife met a guy at work who was very flirtatious and she ended up having a brief affair and cheating on my friend 3 times. Afterwards she was really sorry and now my friend is really glad he didn't break up with her but forgave her. At the same time he did look at his own behaviour - realised he needed to be more loving and attentive to her and make more of an effort to make sex more enjoyable for her. Now their relationship is better than ever. So you don't have to dump her. Just to add - you're only 16 and your gf is pregnant: dear oh dear...

  • ?
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    I'd probably realize my partner isn't ready to be anyone's "Partner" right now, since they insist on having sex with other people. So i'd just let them go and move on

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  • 2 years ago

    She would not cheat twice as after the first time our relationship would be over

  • Dv8s
    Lv 7
    2 years ago

    Impossible, once and I'm ghost. He doesn't get a second chance. Life's too short to spend it chasing a skirt chasing dog.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    Twice and you don't know what to do? If you are still around then its not saying much for you.

  • Anonymous
    2 years ago

    He wouldn't get the chance to cheat on me twice because I'd leave if he cheated on me once.

  • 2 years ago

    Dump him.

  • 2 years ago

    leave

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